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Suspect Your Mate/Spouse Is Cheating?

There are many different warning signs below are just a few that should be red flags to you and can point to Infidelity behavior.

Even thinking that your spouse may be cheating is a difficult and painful thought. Unfortunately, if you have a suspicion that your spouse is unfaithful, you may be right--according to statistics, wives who suspect their husbands of cheating are correct 85% of the time, while husbands who suspect their wives of cheating are correct 50% of the time. Therapist Peggy Vaughan's research has suggested that approximately 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will cheat at least once in their marriage. Despite the prevalence of cheating; 70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men do not know about their spouse's infidelity.

These statistics do not even include nontraditional forms of infidelity, although these forms exist. It is estimated that 40 million Americans have virtual encounters of a sexual nature on the INTERNET, of which many may seek out so-called "emotional affairs".

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1. Suspicious cell phone behavior—Watch especially for unusual phone behavior such as hiding their phone or going into another room to answer a call. Also Not letting their cell phone out of sight.

2. Smelling of another person’s perfume or cologne—Pay attention to the timing of when they do their laundry. Do you do it or do they? Is this a change from the way it used to be?

3. Leaving the house at strange hours—Perhaps working late nights when they did not do this before; or going to see some friend that you’ve never heard of.

4. The history on the internet is constantly being deleted and suspicious behavior when checking email and during online chatting.

5. At the beginning of an affair, the husband/wife may actually be more affectionate than usual due to guilt feelings.

6. Later, after the affair has been going on awhile, he/she often starts finding fault with the wife/husband as a defensive mechanism (i.e., to justify the affair in his/her mind).

7. Cheating partners often lose interest in domestic activities, such as spending time with the kids, fixing up the house, lawn care, etc.

8. Cheating partners may have a change in sexuality (i.e., more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.

9. The cheater’s relationship with their family will almost always change, that is, he/she will tend to become more distant, cold, or fault-finding (i.e., he/she starts to blame the family, especially the partner, for his/her behavior).

10. Financial changes may become noticeable. The partner may notice unexplained credit card charges or withdrawals from the family’s checking account.

11. Grooming habits change. A cheating partner may buy a new wardrobe or a lot of new clothes, or may just suddenly start to become more attentive to their personal appearance. The wife/husband may notice frequent bathing, more careful grooming, new cologne, a new exercise program, etc.

12. Physical clues to the affair may start appearing, such as lipstick on shirt collars, perfume odors on shirts or jackets, secretion stains on underwear. Or the wife/husband may discover pieces of paper with notes or phone numbers, unexplained match books, receipts, condoms, etc.

13. The partners driving pattern may change. The wife/husband may find the car needs gas more often than before or they may monitor the car’s odometer and find the partner is putting a lot of unexplained miles on the car.

Thing you can do:

-Begin to Keep track of the mileage on the suspected partner’s car and even monitor the time they leave for work and the time they come home.

-Keep a calendar and note the times. This should help establish a pattern.

14. "I Love You But I'm Not In Love With You."

       "We are just friends."

This is also another very predictable statement that will come from . If your spouse is spending more and more time with this new "friend"; then there is probably more to it than mere friendship. Your spouse may feel they have a lot in common with this person, that this person understands them and things they are going through. Whatever the reasons for the friendship,it's a big warning sign and one you should take seriously.

15. A sudden need for privacy.

If things the two of you used to share openly suddenly become private pay attention cause something is probably up. He/she may start password protecting computer activity. Cell phone and credit card bills may be hidden. If you ask why or attempt to find out information that used to be common knowledge between the two of you, you will be accused of snooping or trying to control your spouse. Big warning sign!

16. "I need some space to figure out my feelings"

Men and women who are involved with someone else will request more space, time alone or away from the family. They may say it is due to confusion over their feelings or stress at work. This can be a sign that there is someone else and the spouse is trying to figure out ways to have more freedom.

17. Regular work habits change.

Working late, going to work at odd hours or, putting in more time than is normal on work related issues can be indications that a spouse is cheating.

If your spouse is online more than usual, hanging out in chat rooms and visiting pornographic websites then you have reason to be alarmed.

 18. Spending a large amount of time on the computer.

In today’s world, with modern technology, a person looking for an affair doesn’t even have to leave their home. The ease of internet chat rooms, online sites and secret email accounts has caused an alarming increase in emotional affairs.

19. Secretive phone calls and more time spent on the phone.

Emotional affairs occur primarily via the phone, especially cell phones. If you find your spouse hanging up suddenly when you enter the room or erasing the history on the cell phone and becoming defensive when asked about it, then you might want to check your phone records.

20. Behavior that just does not add up.

Not being where he/she was expected to be. Missing time they can't explain. Money that isn't accounted for. Receipts for things you don't have. Missing clothing. Clothing that does not belong to your family. Being caught in little lies about the details of the day. If something is off with their behavior, you should suspect cheating.

21. Hiding credit card bills and/or transactions.

Please keep in mind that there may be other red flags as well. We can help determine for you if the behavior in which you are suspecting as unusual is anything to worry about or not during your FREE consultation.

What Does An Infidelity Investigation Entail?

Investigations will vary based upon your needs and the private investigator conducting the investigation. However, many times an investigation to catch a catching spouse may include:

• Surveillance- A private investigator can watch your spouse through advanced surveillance methods to make sure that you have the evidence you need. Rather than relying on hearsay or your own suspicions, an investigator can help you know.
• Evidence gathering- Seeing a cheating spouse caught on tape is not pleasant, but if an investigator uncovers proof of infidelity, such evidence can help you land a better divorce settlement or can give you the tool you need to confront your mate. If a private investigator finds solid proof that your spouse is faithful, the peace of mind can help ensure that your relationship survives any suspicion.
• Professional techniques- When you hire a professional investigator, the investigator will use professional investigative techniques to find out whether your spouse is unfaithful or not. They will have access to technology and equipment that the average person would not.

What Should I Expect from an Infidelity Investigation?

Investigations into cheating spouses can range from hours to several months. Regardless of length of time, when you go to see a private investigator about a cheating spouse, you will be treated with discretion and respect. The investigator will listen to your suspicions, take them seriously, and will ask you how you want the investigation to be shaped. You will remain in control of how the investigation proceeds and your professional investigator will investigate your spouse--on your terms--until you are completely satisfied. You will be able to get regular updates about the status of the investigation and only you will get to decide what to do with the information that is gathered.

Some people seek help as soon as they feel some suspicion that their spouse is cheating. Knowing for certain is important to them before they confront their partner. Others know their spouse in unfaithful but want solid evidence. If worries about your spouse are affecting your relationship or causing you stress, speaking with a private investigator can help.

For private investigation to work, you need to be willing to commit to an investigation. This means that you must be willing to speak openly with the investigator about your situation and you must be willing to find out the truth. As long as you are willing to do these things, you can take control of your situation.

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